Le Sigma Lifestyle

𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓.
The year I embrace a new paradigm. 𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐘.
Not just by blood, but by choice. By responsibility. By love.

At the end of 2024, I found myself staring at the abyss of mortality.
Death—an uninvited guest—took away people I cared about. Too young, too soon.
Some fought like warriors but lost to an enemy that showed no mercy—cancer. Others chose the cruelest way out, leaving their loved ones drowning in debts, in grief, in regret.

I remember the stories that hit me like a sledgehammer to the soul.
A friend whose father ended his life, leaving behind not just pain, but financial ruin—a burden that should have been his to carry, but instead, it became hers.
I thought of another—a close friend who fought but lost the battle to cancer, leaving his loved ones not just heartbroken, but unprepared because he never made a Will.

𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐫, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞.

And so, today…
I sat down with my team of legacy planners—my estate advisors, my legal experts, my insurance strategists.
𝐓𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐖𝐈𝐋𝐋. 𝐓𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐋𝐄𝐆𝐀𝐂𝐘.

Most people think writing a Will is for the wealthy or the old.
𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅𝒏’𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈.
Death doesn’t come with an appointment date. It doesn’t care how much money you have, how many dreams you’ve yet to chase.
When it knocks, it knocks you out—physically, mentally, financially, spiritually.

As a bachelor at 35 (soon 36), I have accepted two guarantees in life: 𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐇 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐓𝐀𝐗𝐄𝐒.

And in the years I have left to walk this earth, I choose to build.
I choose to create wealth, but more importantly, I choose to give back.

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐈 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐞𝐨’𝐬 𝐅𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭.
Not just for myself, but for the people I care about.
For the churches and temples that have guided me.
For the institutions that gave me knowledge.
For the people who have walked with me.
This is my promise, that my existence will not just be a passing wind, but a legacy carved in stone.

Because mistakes are costly—but if we’re wise, we don’t have to make them ourselves.

I refuse to leave behind financial burdens.
I refuse to let my loved ones suffer the way I’ve seen others suffer.
I refuse to let my life be a story of “if only he had prepared.”

I think about…

• My friend and her father, who left her with debts instead of dignity.
• My late friend, who didn’t get the chance to ensure his loved ones were taken care of.
• My family, my future children, my future partner—who may not even exist yet, but will one day be the center of my universe.

And so, to my future kids…
You may not be born yet, but know this: Dad has already made sure you will never lack. Your education, your daily needs, your safety—all safeguarded in the living trust.

To my future life partner…
Though I haven’t met you yet, I will not just take care of you for the rest of my life—I will take care of you for the rest of YOUR life.
So that you can nurture our children, so that you can live without fear, knowing that even in my absence, you are protected.

To my mum and dad…
Thank you for bringing me into this world.
I am the bridge between you both.
A bridge between the past and the present.
Between hurt and healing.
Between grievances and reconciliation.

I refuse to let the past define the future.
I refuse to let old wounds fester into lifelong scars.
Live and let live. Let go of hate. Let go of emotional baggage.
Because at the end of the day, all we truly have is family.
And if nothing else, my final act on this earth will be to heal the wounds, to mend the cracks, to leave behind peace where there was once pain.

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐖𝐈𝐋𝐋. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐋𝐄𝐆𝐀𝐂𝐘.
𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐬, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠.

I came into this world alone.
But when I leave, I will leave knowing that I have done everything in my power to protect those I love.

𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭, 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐒𝐈𝐆𝐌𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐍.
A man who builds, who provides, and who leaves behind not just wealth—but wisdom, love, and security.

𝑰𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒅, 𝒘𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒅𝒊𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒊𝒔 𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆.